8 Things to Consider Before Buying a Massage Gift Certificate.

Do you love massage and want to share the experience with a loved one, but not sure if they'll like a gift certificate?

Massage gift certificates aren't appropriate for everyone so here are some things to consider before you gift a bodywork session.

How do they feel about touch? Perhaps they feel they could benefit from bodywork, but are uncomfortable with the idea of a lot of touch. If they've mentioned wanting to try it but feel hesitant, consider gifting them a session with a practitioner who is able to work within their comfort zone and skilled in multiple modalities. Energy Techniques like Polarity Therapy, Reiki and CranioSacral Therapy can be done with the client fully clothed and the gentle, stationary holds feel far less invasive than Swedish or Deep Tissue massage.

Does the recipient love all massage and/or bodywork? Then they'd probably love a gift certificate! Find out if they have a favorite practitioner or gift them a session with someone you really like. If you live out of their area, use online reviews to find practitioners nearby.

Does he/she have a favorite massage therapist they see regularly? If so, be sure to purchase a certificate from that practitioner. Perhaps gift them a longer session than they normally schedule, or purchase a package of sessions so they can enjoy multiple treatments!

Do they enjoy a particular type of massage? If someone loves Deep Tissue massage, but receives a gift certificate for a practitioner who primarily focuses on gentle techniques and energy balancing, it won't be a great fit. If choosing a practitioner for someone, consider if the person will enjoy that style of massage. Also consider whether he/she would prefer a spa environment or a professional office setting. 

Is he/she looking for a regular massage practitioner or something specific in bodywork but doesn't know where to start or hasn't found the right fit yet? Finding the right massage therapist can take  time. If you know of a practitioner you think they'd love, a gift certificate is a great way to introduce them!

Has he/she never mentioned receiving or enjoying massage? Bodywork isn't enjoyed by all. If you're considering gifting a session to someone, but they haven't mentioned receiving bodywork or an interest in it, a gift certificate may not be the best present. 

What type of session is best? If they really love massage, gifting a longer session of 90 minutes or 2 hours is a lovely way to give them more self-care time. If you're unsure of whether they enjoy massage but still want to gift one, start with a short session of 20-30 minutes- they can always upgrade! Gift a Hot Stone massage if you want to give them deep relaxation, treatment, energy balancing and pampering all in one!

Know your state's gift certificate laws: Different states have different laws about gift certificates expiring or declining in value. In WA state, gift certificates never expire. For this reason, most massage practitioners offer certificates by dollar amount, not session length or type. Many practitioners will also let the purchaser redeem the certificate if the recipient decides not to use it after a certain amount of time has passed.

This list is based on the numerous questions I've answered about massage gift certificates since starting my private practice in 2008. Feel free to ask additional questions or leave a comment below if this was helpful!

7 Creative Ways to Drink More Water Every Day

Water is a vital component in a healthy functional body. The adult human body contains up to 60% water, which is used throughout our body as a transport system for nutrients, to lubricate joints and soft tissues, produce saliva, regulate internal body temperature and to eliminate waste. 

I'm in the habit of advising my clients to drink more water after receiving a massage. Why? Because once we release adhered tissues and restore glide, you want to maintain the ease by providing the lubrication for the tissues to continue gliding and not get "re-stuck", ie. drink more water. Water is also the element of creativity, renewal, flow and emotional balancing.

Most people don't drink enough water on a daily basis and I've heard a lot of people say they just forget to drink water, or don't like it. So, I've suggested some creative ways over the years to encourage people to drink water more regularly. 

Here is a list of ideas that people tend to like and use to stay properly hydrated.

1. Drink a full glass before getting out of bed.  I place a cup of water by my bed at night before going to sleep. It comes in handy if I wake up thirsty in the middle of the night, but usually I end up drinking it first thing when I awake, before I even stand.

2. Flavor the water. Use a slice of lemon, orange, lime or another fruit to give the water a slight flavor. Mint leaves and cucumber work well too. There are a lot of recipes online for water infusions, including this site with some interesting combos.

3. Get a fun container. Have you noticed you drink more water if it's in a certain glass or mug? I particularly enjoy drinking from mason jars, and notice I drink more when I use one. Maybe a fun straw or cool sports bottle calls your name. If taste is an issue, try glass instead of plastic or metal. If you don't enjoy drinking out of it, chances are you aren't drinking much.

4. Wear your water bottle, seriously!  A lot of people are super busy, on the go and chasing kiddos all day long. Who has time to remember to drink multiple glasses of water then? Get one of those mini-hydration back packs so you can literally drink at any moment while on the playground. This one may seem a bit silly, but it works. 

5. Set a calendar reminder. If you like to have pop-up reminders at work, have one set to a frequency that will help you to remember to drink water. Just don't click "dismiss" without drinking the water.

6. Use a smaller bottle at the office. If you sit at a desk all day, use a smaller glass for your water. This will cause you to get up more frequently to refill the glass, which also means you don't find yourself sitting for 3 hours straight. (yea, you reading this blog, how long has it been since you moved around a bit?) Drinking more water also means you have to get up to use the restroom more frequently. More movement in the day = BONUS!

7. Carry a water bottle everywhere. Even if I'm just running to the grocery store, I bring along my water bottle. Red lights are a great time to hydrate. I even bring an empty lightweight collapsible bottle to places with water fountains (like Sounders games) so I can hydrate at the game and not deal with the bulk in my bag.

How much water to drink?

Different bodies have different needs, but an average rule of thumb is to divide your body weight by 2 and aim for that many ounces of water. Ex: a 180lb person would drink 90oz of water per day. Don't worry if it seems way too much water to drink in a day, just try to drink more than you already do if you know you don't drink enough.

Other reasons/excuses why you can't drink enough water in the day? Post them here and I'll try to find a creative solution for you!

How Often Should I Get Massage?

This is one of the most common questions I hear and it doesn't have a simple answer. Other massage therapists may have a different perspective on this based on their therapeutic approach. My answer is based on the techniques I use and what experience has shown me to be best for my clients.

The frequency of massage really varies based on personal preference and reason for receiving bodywork, so I'll address these individually.

Wellness Massage

If you are healthy and seek massage for general wellness and maintenance rather than treatment, 1-2 times per month is a good rule of thumb. If you are eagerly anticipating your next session more than a few days in advance, you may consider decreasing the time between sessions.

Personal Preference

For some people, once a week is regular. For others, once a year feels right. It's important to listen to your own body and honor what feels right for you whether that is a few times per month or a few times per year. If you find yourself feeling long overdue for a massage, then it has been too long since your last session. If you feel that you'd rather have your massage next week because you don't really need it today (or feel overloaded with other treatments), it may be a good idea to increase time between visits.

Chronic Pain Management

People living with chronic pain benefit from more frequent massage visits. If the pain is constant or occurs daily, weekly massage is a good idea until improvements are lasting more than a week. For example, if you have chronic neck and shoulder pain at a 6 out of 10 pain level from sitting at a computer, and the pain level drops to 2-4 out of 10 for 3-4 days after your massage but increases again by day 5 or 6, weekly is a good frequency. If you feel better for up to two weeks, then every two weeks is a good plan. Generally, you want to receive your next session before the previous level of discomfort recurs.

Many people find that after a few weeks of weekly massage, they are ready to decrease to every two weeks and so on until they are at the frequency they prefer. It is possible to decrease your chronic pain without weekly massage for life; but if you really want weekly massage, go for it!

Acute Injury and Post-Surgery Swelling

If you are experiencing a lot of swelling and pain either from an injury, auto-accident or recent surgery, scheduling 2 sessions per week for the first 2-4 weeks is a good plan. In my practice, we would focus on reducing the swelling through lymphatic facilitation, releasing energy blocks and calming the nervous system. The bodywork approach is very gentle and I usually don't do massage at this stage because it is contraindicated and/or unpleasant to receive.

Is there such a thing as too much massage?

The type of bodywork that I do requires processing time and continues to work after the session ends. It is possible for the body to feel overloaded with too much bodywork, so we want to give enough time between sessions for the body to process new information. I don't usually recommend massage more frequently than once per week for this reason, though there are exceptions.

One exception is the Acute Injury treatment plan listed above. Another exception is if you are coming twice in one week for two different approaches, ie: one session for a nurturing massage and the other for energy balancing. 

In Summary

1. Listen to your body

2. Come before you are desperately in need

3. Schedule weekly to make progress in healing

4. Schedule monthly for maintenance

5. Ask your bodywork therapist if you are still unsure.

Determining massage frequency is really about listening to your body's needs in relation to the treatment received. Sometimes you may need weekly treatments, while at other times you may prefer monthly visits. These are just some general guidelines that I have found to be helpful in deciding on when to schedule the next session for my clients. 

Notes of Gratitude

Creating and completing this new site has been one of the most rewarding and challenging labors of my life. It seems a bit strange to me now that it was so difficult and took me years to do. It was a long road to get past the blocks, fears, frustrations, excuses and the downright refusals to just do it. I didn't know that I could actually enjoy creating a site, but I really had a lot of fun with this challenge once I found my flow. I have a lot of people to thank for helping me get to this point, so I'd like to write each a note of gratitude.

A great big THANK YOU to:

Caley Philipps, my coach- who helped me recognize, understand and remove my blocks. You have a real talent and you got me back in the flow! This blog happened because of you.

Becky Pezely, my logo designer- for creating this gorgeous logo that has inspired me to redesign my brand and reveal my authentic self. I didn't even know logo design could be a therapeutic process!

Jon, my office neighbor- for introducing me to Squarespace when I was frustrated with Wordpress so that I could create the site I envisioned and had fun doing it!

Jill Chatterjee, my sister-friend and photographer- For creating most of the images used on my site and encouraging me to get this going!

My amazing team of healers: Mindee Anderson, Kate Bromley, Michelle Wilson, Janel Fox, Mike Hamm, Kathy Jakielski, Robert Lester, Drew Perdichizzi- for your therapeutic touch and healing presence to help me fully integrate and THRIVE.

My family and friends- for your initial feedback on my site and all your continued support through my healing process these past few months.

And my final note of gratitude, but definitely not least, to my partner Michael- I'm immensely grateful for your incredible feedback during the site creation and for the time you invested in helping me. Your constant support, love and encouragement made this entire process much more manageable.